Sharing your Love with your Child: Happy Valentine’s Day all Year Long

lba-admin — Thu, 25 Jan 2018 16:31:34 +0000

lba-admin Thu, 01/25/2018 - 11:31

Between work and chores, it’s easy for parents to forget to show real love to their children. Lightbridge Academy President and COO Gigi Schweikert offers tips to bring that love back into the spotlight.

There’ll be plenty of red construction paper hearts, pink cupcakes and special dinners on February 14^th. Valentine’s Day is supposed to be all about love. But somewhere between the giant, silver foil candies and the heart-shaped sugar cookies, love got squeezed out. As parents, we often fall into the “give them all we can ” trap, desperate to provide the best “stuff” possible for our children. With busy schedules, we sometimes forget to show real love to our children and just need a little reminder. Valentine's Day is a good place to start.

Cherished childhood memories are not made of expensive gifts or fancy parties, but of simple acts of hugs, conversations, unhurried time spent together and traditions repeated and passed down through generations. Here are a few simple ways to show your child your love throughout the year:

Say, “I love you.”

We’re so busy showing our children that we love them by making money to provide for them, taking them places and giving them things that we sometimes just forget to say, “I love you.” Children often feel that they are only loved when they are good or when we are praising them. Tell your child you love them everyday.

“Let go” of your guilt.

Being a parent is overwhelming at times. We often question whether we are doing what is right and giving our children the love, attention and discipline they need to be successful in school and life. There’s no right way to be a good parent. Allow for your own mistakes and “let go” of the guilt.

Be with your Child.

Often times we are so busy managing our homes, running errands and taking our children to activities that it’s hard to know how much time we really spend with our children. Are we just rushing from place to place and chore to chore? Even though it’s difficult, turn off the radio, put down the cell phone and be with your child—not just around them.

Dream with your Child.

Do you remember as a child lying on your back and watching the sky, naming the shapes of clouds floating by, thinking about life and daydreaming? Simple thoughts and conversations can spark the imagination, plant a seed of curiosity or begin a dream. Every job well done, every great act of generosity began with a thought or a dream. Hang out and dream with your child.

Celebrate your child’s best efforts and successes.

When our children were infants, they would look up searching for our smiles when they pulled up, made a toy squeak or clapped their hands. Their every move was a triumph. With older children, we can still praise good grades, nice manners, and more importantly, controlling anger, helping a friend and playing soccer even though we all know our kid’s not the best one on the team.

Watch your child sleep.

Before you go to bed each night, spend a few minutes watching your sleeping child. Breathe in the calmness and know it’s all worth it. Sometimes we long for “sleep-in mornings,” spontaneous weekend trips, career opportunities that were lost and priorities that were changed. And just because the world’s most important job doesn’t come with a paycheck, doesn’t mean it doesn’t come with rewards: wet, slurpy kisses; little, gooey handprints and, all encompassing, “I’ll do anything for this kid,” love.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Gigi Schweikert is the president and COO of Lightbridge Academy and an expert in the field of early childhood education. She has managed corporate childcare centers and their educational programs for more than 30 years. Schweikert was the host of Today’s Family and is a bestselling author of eighteen books. Follow 1851 Franchise as she shares her tips on parenting and childcare.

Teaching Your Child Kindness & Love this Valentine's Day

lba-admin — Mon, 13 Feb 2017 18:37:59 +0000

Teaching Your Child Kindness & Love this Valentine's Day

lba-admin Mon, 02/13/2017 - 13:37

While we love to buy little chocolate hearts and toys for Valentine's Day for our children, why not make this Valentine's Day a little extra special? You can do this by teaching your preschool child kindness, compassion and love by helping and caring about others in your community.

Raising children who are kind and compassionate is an important goal as a parent. Every parent wants their child to grow up to be a kind, thoughtful and loving adult. The training can start now while your child is young by learning to help others and doing nice things for others in small simple ways.

Here are just a few ideas that you can do to help teach your child about kindness and love this Valentine's Day:

1. Draw or color a picture for a neighbor, friend, family member or teacher at your early learning center. Explain to your child that you care about them. It is sure to put a smile on their face when they receive their "kindness gift"!

2. Have your child pick out a few nonperishable food items to donate to your local food pantry. Show your child that you are helping others with their basic needs.

3. Have your child share a toy with a friend. Teach your child the importance of making others happy by being kind.

4. Make a special treat for the birds or animals. This is a fun and easy way to teach your child that kindness is important for all living creatures. It is easy enough to do with a pipe cleaner, ribbon and a few Cheerios. Form into a circle, string the cheerios around and hang on a tree with a ribbon.

These few simple ideas can make a big difference in lessons that will last a lifetime in the heart of your child. Happy Valentine's Day from Lightbridge Academy!